I wish I didn’t understand how complicated & heavy grief is, please know my heart is with yours. Intellectually I know the greatest grief comes from the greatest love. Been dealing with major loss and navigating the new normal since 2013. It has opened up more understandings and new ways of staying connected to my loved ones. It is been a long process. The first minute, hour, day, week, month, and year is hard, and that is an understatement. This thought came to me within a week of my daughter crossing over-
With friends
we laugh
we cry
and we laugh again
I had to hold onto this thought, no going around grief, have to go through it. So hard to say goodbye to the ones we love… till next time so much better to ease the pain. My girl still sends me signs… ✨🧜♀️✨
Oh, Marjorie, you most definitely know that depth of grief. My heart is with yours as well. Very big hugs to you!! I do love that you close with 'my girl still sends me signs'. I have visits, too, especially from my mother, aunt, and grandmothers; I think they know my heart needs them to keep their eyes on me. Those little reminders are their encouragement for me to keep living this life the best I can. Those signs used to puddle me in tears, but now...I let the love they send wash over me and I smile while saying hello. Thank you so much for sharing your process with me. It is always a comfort to know how others make it through the most heartbreaking times of their lives. Blessings to you and MUCH LOVE AND MANY (((HUGS)))!!!
I wish I didn’t understand how complicated & heavy grief is, please know my heart is with yours. Intellectually I know the greatest grief comes from the greatest love. Been dealing with major loss and navigating the new normal since 2013. It has opened up more understandings and new ways of staying connected to my loved ones. It is been a long process. The first minute, hour, day, week, month, and year is hard, and that is an understatement. This thought came to me within a week of my daughter crossing over-
With friends
we laugh
we cry
and we laugh again
I had to hold onto this thought, no going around grief, have to go through it. So hard to say goodbye to the ones we love… till next time so much better to ease the pain. My girl still sends me signs… ✨🧜♀️✨
Sending big massive (((hugs)))
Oh, Marjorie, you most definitely know that depth of grief. My heart is with yours as well. Very big hugs to you!! I do love that you close with 'my girl still sends me signs'. I have visits, too, especially from my mother, aunt, and grandmothers; I think they know my heart needs them to keep their eyes on me. Those little reminders are their encouragement for me to keep living this life the best I can. Those signs used to puddle me in tears, but now...I let the love they send wash over me and I smile while saying hello. Thank you so much for sharing your process with me. It is always a comfort to know how others make it through the most heartbreaking times of their lives. Blessings to you and MUCH LOVE AND MANY (((HUGS)))!!!